Would You Mind Structure: Usage, Examples, and Exercises

In daily conversations, we often need to make polite requests or ask for permission in a respectful and friendly manner. One of the most common ways to do this in English is by using the phrase “Would you mind”, which allows you to express requests while showing consideration for others.

Although all variations of “Would you mind” aim to ask for something, the differences in usage can be subtle and may cause confusion if not applied correctly. Let’s break down the structure and usage with IDP IELTS below.

“Would you mind” is a formal and polite phrase commonly used when asking for help or permission. It can be interpreted as “Would you be so kind as to...?” or “Do you mind if...?”

Instead of giving direct commands, this structure softens your request and helps maintain a positive tone in conversation. It often leads to better responses due to its politeness.

2.1 Making a Request Politely

Structure: Would you mind + V-ing ...?

Use this when you want someone to do something. The verb that follows should be in the gerund form (-ing).

Examples:

• Would you mind closing the window?

• Would you mind speaking more slowly, please?

This structure can also be used to express polite complaints or annoyance about someone's action, especially when it is bothersome.

Examples:

• Would you mind shutting up for a minute?

• Would you mind turning off the TV? I need to concentrate.

2.2 Asking for Permission Politely

Structure: Would you mind if + Subject + Verb (past simple)?

Use this when you want to do something and are asking for permission.

Examples:

• Would you mind if I opened the window?

• Would you mind if I borrowed your car tomorrow?

2.3 Asking for Someone’s Consent About a Third Person’s Action

Structure: Would you mind + someone's + V-ing ...?

Use this to ask if it is acceptable for another person to do something.

Examples:

• Would you mind Alex’s throwing his birthday party on the rooftop?

• Would you mind Lisa’s playing drums in the living room?

Your response should match the tone and remain polite. If you agree to the request, here are some appropriate replies:

Polite Responses (Agreeing):

• No, of course not.

• Please go ahead.

• Feel free to do so.

• No, I do not mind.

• No, I would not mind at all.

• Never mind / You are welcome.

• That would be fine.

• I would be glad to.

• I would be happy to.

Examples:

• Would you mind if I opened the window? → Please feel free to do so.

• Would you mind driving me to the supermarket tomorrow? → No, I would not mind at all.

Polite Responses (Disagreeing or Refusing):

• I would prefer you did not.

• I would rather you did not.

• I am sorry, that is not possible.

• I am sorry, but I cannot do that right now.

Examples:

• Would you mind if I smoke here? → I would prefer you did not.

• Would you mind Lisa going out with me tonight? → I am so sorry, that is impossible.

Exercise 1: Fill in the blanks using “Would you mind” structure

1. Would you mind ……………… (turn) down the music?

2. Would you mind ……………… (give) me a ride to the airport?

3. Would you mind if I ……………… (take) a picture of you?

4. Would you mind ……………… (speak) to my boss about my promotion?

5. Would you mind Peter’s ……………… (sing) all day in his room?

6. Would you mind ……………… (take) care of my cat while we are away?

7. Would you mind if I ……………… (use) your phone to make a call?

8. Would you mind Angela’s ……………… (buy) more luxury items?

9. Would you mind ……………… (open) up your luggage?

10. Would you mind if I ……………… (invite) my friends over?

Answers:

1. turning

2. giving

3. took

4. speaking

5. singing

6. taking

7. used

8. buying

9. opening

10. invited

Exercise 2: Rewrite the sentences using “Would you mind”

1. Can you help me to turn on the light? → Would you mind turning on the light?

2. Could he attend your birthday next week? → Do you mind if he attends your birthday next week?

3. May I ask you a question? → Do you mind if I ask you a question?

4. Can you please leave the door open? → Would you mind leaving the door open?

5. Will you send her this box for me? → Do you mind sending her this box?

Master “Would You Mind” in Real Conversations with IDP

While “Would you mind” is a basic English grammar point, its effectiveness depends on the context and the relationship between speaker and listener. With regular practice, this structure can significantly improve your communication skills and help build better relationships.

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